tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6395301831609983730.post5721697732748035598..comments2023-10-12T08:12:19.223-07:00Comments on Cancer Ain't Gonna Beat Me (and it didn't!): I wished I lived in the middle of nowhere!Sara Dianahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16741008340503019303noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6395301831609983730.post-48076372371569498682009-07-12T05:08:51.876-07:002009-07-12T05:08:51.876-07:00One of the harder "gifts" to accept with...One of the harder "gifts" to accept with cancer is that we find out who is important in our life and who is not. That "friend"? Was never really a friend. Whatever it is that will not allow her to be kind is her issue. And she will carry that stone with her until she decides to change. You on the other hand have learned even more about forgiveness. You have cleansed your heart in this matter. Yes, it still hurts to be excluded. But realize that while we are thankful for the blessings that we do have, we must also be thankful for the ones that we do not have. It's early yet to grasp that...when treatment is over and you are feeling more like yourself, you will understand better what I'm saying. Is this woman and her crowd really "worth" the energy you are expending? Energy that would be more fruitful and beneficial to yourself and those who do love you?<br /><br />It's hard and it hurts. But it will pass. ♥<br /><br />By the way -- the photo you are using on your facebook badge is gorgeous!Sherryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08271529958269038071noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6395301831609983730.post-15865503256209945952009-07-11T19:09:22.855-07:002009-07-11T19:09:22.855-07:00Nice picture, look at that long hair! Your village...Nice picture, look at that long hair! Your village sounds so quaint and friendly. Hope you get some sleep.Bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02364706890012512947noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6395301831609983730.post-22567021398142442232009-07-11T17:08:54.533-07:002009-07-11T17:08:54.533-07:00It's hard Sara and unfortunately there are peo...It's hard Sara and unfortunately there are people out there like that and sometimes we have to know when to let go or it will eat us up. I know all to well as I have a daughter who for some seem reason doesn't seem to care. It's all about herself....sad as it is I had to let it go and will wait for her to come around now. We need to be able to enjoy those good days without the stress of everyone else.<br />Hugs<br />Jill.Jillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03978632234049776290noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6395301831609983730.post-52815898478566300162009-07-11T15:37:50.095-07:002009-07-11T15:37:50.095-07:00I sorry this happened Sara. People can be so unkin...I sorry this happened Sara. People can be so unkind at times.<br />It sounds like your not feeling well and your doing right by taking care of you. <br />If someone has been like that for some time I doubt they are not going to change.You need positive people in your life..the less negative the better. Cancer is hard enough with out negative people who enjoy making others feel bad.<br />Take care of you!Kerryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02553534265223827573noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6395301831609983730.post-67319607846229660032009-07-11T05:20:42.076-07:002009-07-11T05:20:42.076-07:00Sorry Sara about your neighbor, geez, what are peo...Sorry Sara about your neighbor, geez, what are people thinking? Can't you make a noise complaint with the police? Not sure how it works over there but here in the US, I certainly would send the cops over! Try to get some rest through all this.The Cebulashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08139124224177573250noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6395301831609983730.post-80802818008000063142009-07-11T04:53:23.083-07:002009-07-11T04:53:23.083-07:00I understand how you feel, the same has happened t...I understand how you feel, the same has happened to me....its sad but that is what happens when you least expect it, people are there and then they are not there when you need them the most. I accepted it.....it hurts. Be well....you are loved by your family and that is important to have family.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6395301831609983730.post-23280503180716301842009-07-11T04:28:35.632-07:002009-07-11T04:28:35.632-07:00Just remember that you are a well loved and well t...Just remember that you are a well loved and well thought of person Sara, can she say the same your FAQ? I doubt it! People are probably only friends with her because they are afraid not to be, not a good reason to be friends with someone, or a good friend to have! It will all come back at her one day! Rise above her and know that you are better than she can ever be!! Thinking of you! Sending lots of love and hugs, Sharon xxxxxshaariluhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03100950362430661714noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6395301831609983730.post-61508126423561853512009-07-11T04:15:37.139-07:002009-07-11T04:15:37.139-07:00It is hard to realise that some people just aren&#...It is hard to realise that some people just aren't nice or just don't care. Poor you. try to remember that you are only responsible for your own behaviour - their behaviour is no reflection on your feelings or efforts. <br />With love, <br />StephanieStephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12430266244464921219noreply@blogger.com